exmen!!

I was watching Sweetlife the other day. Their topic was about ex's and if its possible they can be friends again ( well, if my ex is Chris brown I think I wouldn't dare,nyay) O nga, Is it really possible??

Based on my own experience, I think it is..although its a case to case basis thing. I even made that ex one of the godfathers of my eldest. We actually exchange emails from time to time. Well I guess one factor is that he is still single. I mean his action are limitless. There are times kasi that you want to look back on those times esp when you're goin' thru a hard times, it helps when you go back and reminisce. Its also a way to cope with a lot of stress coz for sure during that time our, my concerns are nothing compare to now.


Don't you want to remember your firsts? dates, kiss, hug or the first time you held hands in public. Haha! kilig ang beauty mo di ba. Of course, how can we forget the times when our hearts were broken....hay! those tearful nights kakaloka.


For me, its healthy to maintain a friendly relationship with yur ex's..for sure even if it is the worst relationship you ever had, we still learned something from it. It made us a better partner to our next relationship. It's also nice to have a big laugh on our mistakes then and c'mon life is short..if they hurt you so much, na karma na yun hehehe. Don't you want to know how are they doing now???Think about it......

loving life

I am under the weather today...bigla ko kasing naisip ang buhay ko. After college kasi, limandi na ako, nag asawa at nagkaron ng 3 kids. Masayang malungkot at mahirap ang buhay ng isang housewife..actually parang wala atang buhay hehehe! gusto ko sana as much as possible puro masaya lang ang i share kaso di ata ganun ang life, di pwedeng puro saya..





na experience mo na ba magkaulong sa banyo kasi ayaw mong makita ka ng mga anak mong umiiyak..e ang umiiyak ka tapos may dumating na kamag anak ang asawa mo tapos syempre dapat happy ang mood mo kaya para kang tangang may luha pero umeemote ng smile. Minsan kaya sa grocery store nagtalo kayo ni mister at nasigawan ka sa public place or worst namura ka pa e may nakitang friend na beso at chika ever sa yo...... nakakatawa na para kang artista minsan, mahirap naman sa lahat ng pagkakataon sasabihin mong dapat magpaka totoo ka sa nararamdaman mo..di naman ganun ang buhay. May mga times na dapat marunong ka lumangoy sa alon, sana lang wag malunod. Isipin mo din kasi ang tsismis na masasagap ng iba hahaha, mahilig pa naman tayo dyan.....





mahirap ang buhay may asawa, dalawang magka ibang personalidad, ibang pagpapalaki so ano ang i expect mo di ba. Mala san juanico bridge na patience ang kailangan para tumagal ang buhay may asawa, kailangan din accepted mo sya ng buo kasama duon ang pinaka masama nyang ugali, pinaka mabahong utot at pinaka mabahong laway sa umaga.

when to say it's over..

Kausap ko yung barkada ko sa cellphone..umiiyak sya. For the first time na speechless ako kasi feeling ko wala akong pwedeng sabihin para gumaang ang loob nya. Mahirap din mag advice pag usapang pamilya...hay! pero bilang kaibigan gusto mo lang mapabuti ang pakiramdam nya. Madami daming kwentong puso ang meron sa baul ko sa pagitan ng aking mga mata, hahaha ang lalim di ba. anyway, gusto ko one day i share yun of course without mentioning the names of people invlolved. Madami kasing aral ang napulot ko.

Masaya tlagang ma inlove pero pag nakaka sama na sa pagkatao parang mapapa isip ka, worth ba ang mga sacrifices mo kung ganito na ang kwento ng lovelife mo......

I'm not a newbie in blogging, I actually got into a legal battle beacuse of this. ( I won anyway) It didn't stop me from writing though but its just now that I'm trying it as in all out. I realized that no matter how small my voice can be..eventually it will be heard. We'll that experienced gave me my gratest laugh ever.